Here's the thing: Have you not noticed when the person you are with has had the benefit of counseling?
It's so important. You can read, take courses, watch videos and listen to podcasts until the cows come home.
But if you do not also invest in yourself and have real face time with a professional counselor from time to time, you're really cheating yourself and the other people you are in relationship with.
I am not currently taking clients.
I can refer you to some stellar folk. Please connect with me and give a few details about what you are working on and we can start a conversation.